i want a woman... revisited

i want a woman... revisited


i wrote this list initially back in august 2008.

when i "revisited" it early may, i wasnt even looking. and then i fell in love. i didnt mean to. it happened against my will, if you ll have it... i was holding back... then... suddenly she came a little too close, and i was doomed. so now spending wsome time away fromher, and that should take care of itself...

right now i guess i m not "looking actively", but i sure keep my eyes open...



i want a woman who...

is generous and not afraid to give too much.

a woman who says please, thank you, and knows that the reason for good manners is a pleasant cohabitation.

a woman who is thankful, first and foremost, for her mere existence.

a woman who can appreciate beauty in everything, and learns valuable lessons even from difficulties.

who loves to talk, listen and who has an honest, straightforward and kind style of communication.

a woman who thinks of love making more like the highlight of her day, rather than a chore, and has a high sex drive. a woman whose kisses increase my heartbeats and who can deliver a bite that leaves me prey to her intentions.

a woman who is well-read and informed, has a critical and open mind and enjoys exchange of ideas -preferably ideas she comes up with on her own.

a woman who is interested in and wants to be part of contemporary culture and loves the arts.

a woman who is involved, with humanitarian, intellectual or artistic interests or background and possibly an activist of some sort.

a woman who makes use of her immune system and isn't afraid of dirt, germs and the like but tends to the cleanliness of her own space nonetheless.

a woman who will take a trail that doesn't exist, and will get up to her knees in icy waters or crawl in mud just to get a better view of a waterfall.

a woman who takes risks, but does not put herself in danger.

a woman who takes care of herself and doesn't need mothering, but purrs at her lover's nurturing.

a woman who is not jealous or threatened by the other important people in her partner's life.

a woman who will wonder, doubt, question, argument, agree or disagree respectfully and constructively.

a woman who loves different tastes of food, appreciates and enjoys a meal cooked just for her or other small, loving gestures.

a woman who will jump gladly into a relaxing bath for two, candles and all and let me massage and pamper her for hours.

a woman who is not afraid in the dark, because she's holding my hand.

a woman who likes to hold hands.

a woman who might write me a poem or bring me flowers, because it's Tuesday.

a woman who knows who she is, what she wants, or is in a perpetual process of finding out, and is proud of herself but not arrogant.

a woman who is out, most importantly to herself.

a woman who knows how to live and let live and who can, when all else fails, let go and let god.

a woman who is honest, goal-oriented, disciplined, concentrated and has a common sense.

a woman I can admire and look up to.

a woman who lives mostly smoke, drug and alcohol free and leads a more or less healthy and active lifestyle.

a woman who reflects on her emotions, reactions, needs and wishes.

a woman who loves cats, of any size, or even better has a cat personality herself...

a woman who doesnt have bad-mannered dog(s). a woman who has well-mannered children, if any.

a woman who wants to see the world and is up for an adventure but also has a comfortable, functional, cosy and tastefully decorated home to return to, spend time alone, time for two or to entertain friends.

a woman who enjoys a playful exchange of sarcastic niceties.

a woman that will fascinate me and for whom I'll fall deeper over time.

a woman who is confident and reveals her true self from the beginning.

a woman whose smile brightens up my day and whose eyes I gladly and willingly get lost into. a woman whose arms are the safest and most comforting place in the world.

a woman who carries herself in an emancipated, sexy way and is more often than not on the androgenous or butchy side of the fence -a woman without a possessive, controlling or macho attitude.

a woman I will want to spend a long time with, a woman I would be happy and honoured to make a committment to.

a woman who will not fall low when it's over, someone I can consider a close friend when the romantic interest fades.